Out with the old, in with the new. That’s the theme this time of year as
hundreds of thousands of people make New Year’s resolutions. It seems like a good time to start fresh, to
turn over a new leaf, to begin again as we enter a new year. These folks pledge to lose weight, get
organized, save more money, eat healthy, exercise more, quit smoking, quit
drinking alcohol, and so on.
These are all admirable declarations and the timing sounds
right, but according to a recent study by the University of Scranton, a mere 8%
of American’s who make New Year’s Resolutions are successful in achieving them. And only 64% keep the resolution beyond the
first month.
Perhaps there is a better way. I would argue traditional resolutions are all
“me” driven. Maybe we should change our
mindset for resolutions and become more “other” focused. And what if we re-pledged these promises
every month or even every day?
For instance, I plan to:
Be generous - give more, take less.
Be kind – do unto others…
Help – not only when needed, but anytime.
Laugh – or better yet, make someone else laugh.
While these things may not seem as grand or impressive as
losing weight or saving more money, they will hopefully make me a better person
and help someone else at the same time.
All the best for a new year filled with giving, kindness and laughter. What's your New Year's Resolution?